December 17 – Lesson Learned. What was the best thing you learned about yourself this past year? And how will you apply that lesson going forward?

I don't know the answer to this prompt.  I learn more every day.  I know I am resilient but I think I have always known that.  What I don't know (more importantly) is what I actually want.  Perhaps I learned not to be a control freak this year.  It is kinder and easier on oneself to release the need to control events and people.